Sociology, Food and Love

In the Soc 101 class, we were required to read Civilization and Its Discontents by Sigmund Freud. While studying for my final, I came across a very interesting idea he quotes. He believes that the necessities in life are food and love.

Freud describes the importance of love and states the only thing that causes "social anxiety is the loss of love" (85). Love is the only thing that a man opens his heart to and it is the worst thing he can loose for it can do the most damage!

Freud even believed that love was just as necessary as nourishment was! Just thought I would share my findings :)

The One About Hair

Dear Students,

I thought that you might enjoy taking a quick look at the spring quarter course blog--I'm still working on it. Does the picture of Lady Godiva in the backgroun remind you of anybody?

address: http://www.hairraising-srdrissi.blogspot.com/

Final Project: Sexual Revolution in the Media

These are the videos from our project. Unfortunately I could not upload the powerpoint itself but I think this gets the point across well enough. The goal of this project was to explore the prevalence of sexuality through various outlets of media, such as food advertisement and music.

The Need

As I was reading Chapter 8, I came across this quote,

"Falling in Love is like an obsession with me, and I had been going through one of the loneliest periods of my life because of the ephemeral company I'd been keeping...I needed the "love of my life". I needed to die for love, to live for love, to fall apart for love." (p123)

This made me think of how in the novel, Yocandra throws around the concept of "love" without ever really knowing what it is. I believe she fills the void left by the changes done to her life (due to the revolution) with sex and she tries to justify it by saying that it is "love". For in fact, in this quote she admits that it is an obsession as a result of her loneliness.

Her "love" is superficial, and she falls in love at first sight. Her lovers use her and her body, as she uses them for their bodies and the way they make her feel. Are her sexual acts a form of rebellion? Her sexuality being part of her identity, something that she still has a slight grasp on. Or is the sex she has so pleasurable that it takes Yocandra to an alternate reality...a place with endless nourishment?